Last Friday I came out and asked her out on a PROPER date. No sitting there wondering if it was a date date or a mate date.
Anyway, she said "Yea that would be cool, we could hang out... just as friends"
And I was pretty gutted
Anyway, earlier on today we met up for a jam round at my friends house. We were working on stuff for a few hours and we eventually ran out of steam and left. Now as I walked her home, I was thinking about what I could do. Could I say to her "Look, I really like you, you know... like THAT" and at least that would clear up any confusion that either of us may have. It's out in the open, blunt and mainly CLEAR.
But then I thought "Hey... but what if she's not sure if she likes me? And she wants to hang out as friends before saying anything just to make sure of how she feels?". Tough call, I know. But either way I'd have to work out what to do or say pretty soon.
Anyway, we get to her door and I say to her "We're no strangers to love. You know the rules and so do I. A full commitment's what I'm thinking of, you wouldn't get this from any other guy. I just gotta tell you what I'm feeling... gotta make you understand. Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you. Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt you. We've known each other for so long, your heart's been aching but you're too shy to say it. Inside we both know what's been going on, we know the rules and we're gonna play it. And if you ask me how I'm feeling, don't tell me you're too blind to see"